Marriage Life

I always thought that every single man that I've met is the one who might be my soul mate but totally I was wrong. To get the right one, you need to go with many processes. Definitely you cannot simply pick randomly who will be your other half since he or she will be with you for like forever.

Choosing a soul mate is not as easy as an ABC. If it is, maybe everyone (including me) already got paired up. You just need to know a couple of thing before you are so-called ready to go one step forward. Before asking someone to be your partner, your soul, your everything, asks yourself first.

Do you really want him/her to be your husband/wife? Are you really going to handle all the tantrums, cries and all the negative thoughts for the whole time in your life? Are you ready to have a big fight and settle it properly? Think, think and always think all these possibilities. You need to be ready and create your plan in handling this kind of bad thing (which everyone wishes not to have).

Well, everyone wants the best in their marriage life but not everyone knows how to make their marriage life wonderful. Because of what? Just because of egoistical that either one or maybe both of you got in each other. Lower down your ego cause it won’t give you any good return.

I just want to share some rules for a happy marriage that I read from one website ( okay I’m not an expert I just feel like I wanna write something so yeah ) here you go :

First thing first, show your love in a way that matters. There are some people say “I love you” but some will show “I love you”. You have to know the difference say and show and how it matters to your partner. All you need to ensure is that your partner will receive your message accurately. Some partners especially women (okay I’m not trying to be sexist) are the ones who always overthinking over a little things like this so men, be prepared when your girls are one of those group ( and good luck!).

Next, apply the 5-to-1 rule. Maybe some of you don’t know what this is so let’s make it short and simple which is a ratio of positive to negative interactions. Got me? When things start to worse, make it in a positive way? How? Figure it because this will be basically on how your partner will be. Try to less the fight and have a good time with your partner. Sounds simple but not that simple until you figure it yourself.

In marriage life, all you have to do is something that everyone pretends to not see or do it. It is just a little things that most of partners will make it least important. Just to let you know, the little things that you focusing on will be a big stuff that lead the happiness way! So think about little things you can do to make your love happy on a daily basis.

Who will need a best friend when their partner is the best ever friend? Everyone needs a best friend in their life who always listens to their rants, cries and tantrums. Be their best friend cause being totally connected is just one sign you’ve found the one.

That’s it and hopes anyone who reads this will find a good partner in your life.

Till here, xx